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Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Shut up, you're getting sex, who cares about the boyfriend
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You have a moral obligation not to do this
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Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby muzorewi's daughter on Wed Aug 05, 2009 7:05 am

Anyone been that guy (or girl)?

Assume that you neither of you really have any feelings for each other, it's basically just about sex. Also assume that their relationship is messed up and the boyfriend is a massive asshole.
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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby Benny on Wed Aug 05, 2009 7:20 am

muzorewi's daughter wrote:Assume that you neither of you really have any feelings for each other, it's basically just about sex. Also assume that their relationship is messed up and the boyfriend is a massive asshole.


assuming all that : easiest poll ever. wtf?
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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby muzorewi's daughter on Wed Aug 05, 2009 7:28 am

Benny wrote:
muzorewi's daughter wrote:Assume that you neither of you really have any feelings for each other, it's basically just about sex. Also assume that their relationship is messed up and the boyfriend is a massive asshole.


assuming all that : easiest poll ever. wtf?

I bet you $10 someone's gonna come in here with a different opinion.
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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby fishingrhod on Wed Aug 05, 2009 7:34 am

Assume that you have no feelings for her but her current situation encourages the self delusion that there really is something good about you, and that there is the real prospect of another, better relationship. She and her boyfriend are going through a difficult patch at the moment but she really, really loves him deep down. Also assume that you are a massive arsehole.
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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby jimmy spako on Wed Aug 05, 2009 7:48 am

i am not going to be hanging out repeatedly, naked or otherwise, with a woman who chooses to spend large portions of her time in a messed up relationship with a massive asshole.

sure it could happen once. probably unlikely though, if i am aware of the back story.

stupid women = not so sexy.
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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby muzorewi's daughter on Wed Aug 05, 2009 8:15 am

jimmy spako wrote:i am not going to be hanging out repeatedly, naked or otherwise, with a woman who chooses to spend large portions of her time in a messed up relationship with a massive asshole.

They have two kids together, and she says she's only doing it for them. I tell her this is a bad idea that will only cause more pain for her kids.
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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby barndog on Wed Aug 05, 2009 8:52 am

I sorta have a rule of not getting involved with anyone that is actively involved with someone else, even if it's only for appearances. Strikes me as sort of crappish.
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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby The MayorofRockNRoll on Wed Aug 05, 2009 8:56 am

Uh...been that dude...

one time it led me to being the boyfriend in a really, really fucked up relationship...

so, asshole though the boyfriend may be (and you'd probably be an asshole, too, if you knew you couldn't trust your SO), what goes around comes around.

Then again, I dunno...it happens, sometimes.

Also....personally not a big fan of monogamy these days (which, yes, I'm aware of the irony, given that I started the Dry Spell thread in GD), though I'll respect other people's monogamy.
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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby D./Eksvplot on Wed Aug 05, 2009 9:08 am

Oh, another one of these threads...Have we done a poll about Bataille yet?
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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby ubercat on Wed Aug 05, 2009 9:18 am

Total cockbag move.

Crap. On all levels.
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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby numberthirty on Wed Aug 05, 2009 9:23 am

Advice from a old timer on this subject: If she'll fuck him over, she probably won't have any problem fucking you over.

Sure enough, that's been exactly how it's played out when I've been dumb enough to do this. Guess you really do get what you deserve.

Works the same way with men from what I've seen.
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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby motorbike guy on Wed Aug 05, 2009 9:30 am

I am so through being a selfish opportunistic pussy hound. Not worth it.
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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby muzorewi's daughter on Wed Aug 05, 2009 9:38 am

numberthirty wrote:Advice from a old timer on this subject: If she'll fuck him over, she probably won't have any problem fucking you over.

Fuck me over in what way?
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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby numberthirty on Wed Aug 05, 2009 9:44 am

muzorewi's daughter wrote:
numberthirty wrote:Advice from a old timer on this subject: If she'll fuck him over, she probably won't have any problem fucking you over.

Fuck me over in what way?


:roll:

If you're already questioning what you're doing, you are already in a position to get fucked over somehow.

That you don't get to know how is the beauty of karmic retribution.
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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby John C5 on Wed Aug 05, 2009 10:17 am

Does she have a massive arsehole?
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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby DrAwkward on Wed Aug 05, 2009 10:19 am

numberthirty wrote:Advice from a old timer on this subject: If she'll fuck him over, she probably won't have any problem fucking you over.


Absolutely true.

I haven't *technically* done this, but have flirted with it on two occasions:

1) First girl i ever did the nasty with--she had pursued me for like a year and i resisted because she had a boyfriend. Eventually, i had pretty much gotten tired of not getting any so when i point blank asked her about the BF, she said "we're in an open relationship." Of course, it was the kind of open relationship where she insisted on it and he just went along with it but didn't act on it, but i didn't know that until after the fact. She ended up dumping him for me. 10 months later, after letting her know repeatedly that an open relationship with me was not going to happen, she dumped me to go fuck a couple in Chicago. Still pals with her, though, and funnily enough, the guy she dumped for me. But i always think of this situation when i think of the sage proverb numberthirty cited.

2) Had a brief one-month fling with this ridiculously hot girl with whom i'd been flirty with for a year or so but never really hung out with until i ran into her on the street and she said "i just broke up with my boyfriend." I wasn't seeing anyone at the time and knew immediately that if i pursued it i'd be a rebound. Didn't care. Hung out and had sexy times for a month before she went back to the boyfriend. During the whole month she kept me up to date on where things stood with him and with me and we knew what it was pretty much the whole time. I was bummed when she went back to him, but no one really got hurt and two weeks later i was dating someone else.

Neither of these situations really fit into this thread perfectly, but neither of them really turned out crap.
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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby dontfeartheringo on Wed Aug 05, 2009 10:27 am

I guess it all boils down to two things:

1. What's your tolerance for risk?


and


2. How do you feel about the whole "Do unto others..." thing?


wrt to #1: cuckolded men can be fairly unpredictable and astonishingly violent.

wrt to #2: Perhaps one day you'll understand completely it feels to be THAT guy.

I am voting crap, not least because there's plenty of women out there who aren't attached to a potential house-stalking, door-kicking, lead-pipe swinging, gun-owning machine. (Like me, if you follow.)
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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby numberthirty on Wed Aug 05, 2009 10:27 am

After I had been burned by this very sort of thing, said old timer hit me with an even better one.

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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby Sock OR Muffin? on Wed Aug 05, 2009 10:33 am

I was this guy once without knowing it, perhaps very naively. She ended up going back to him of course. I was just her Christmas break fling.

Would never knowingly be the other guy.

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Re: Status: being the guy she's cheating on her boyfriend with

Postby Benny on Wed Aug 05, 2009 10:58 am

okay.
i've been in that situation. it fucking sucked, but that was because they were lots of feelings involved so well.. it wouldn't turn out okay. i was in love with her. the other guy was in love with her. she was in love with both of us.
she ended breaking up with the other dude, and we we're together but it didn't worked. she missed him, and all that stuff. after a few months, i quitted and - as expected - they are back together.

it was terrible and my mind was a trainwreck the most of the time during that period. but - they were lots of feelings involved. if it's only sex (really) and you don't care for the other guy..
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